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Atomic Habits

James Clear

10/10
Fantastic book regarding a lot of fundamental ideas about how to build and maintain habits
  • 1% errors and 1% improvements compound and do a lot of impact over time. Habits should aim for consistent 1% minor improvements constantly
  • Beware of lagging indicators and disappointment as a result
  • Results in terms of metrics don't happen until they do all at once. Ice cute heated from 25 -> 31 and then 32. Exercising consistently and then one day muscle up. Be patient
  • Forget about goals, focus on systems (how you pratcie, how often you practice, recruit people, test your product, get feedback from users or mentors, how you break down problems)
  • Don't change results, change the system (cleaning a messy room vs solving why it was messy)
  • Goals are an issue, because subconsciously its a I will be happy when I have x. Vs happy as the process is constantly going.
  • Trying to change the wrong thing for trying to make habits.
  • Trying to change results, system, identity.
  • Identity is better than results. Who do you want to become. (I am x vs im trying to x like quite smoking)
  • Must change identity and belief about self. Pride on identity is good
  • Beware of identity in the negative. I'm always late, bad at math, etc. This is bad
  • Identity comes from -> consistentcy of habits which give you evidence.
  • Who do you want to be. Start with results and work backwards. I want to loose weight -> what kind of person would be able to do that -> how can I become that type of person.
  • Habits, queu, craving, response, reward. Repeated until is automatic and without thought and it becomes a habit
  • 4 habit laws creating habits, cue -> make it obvious, craving -> make it attractive, response -> make it easy, reward -> make it satisfying
  • Breaking habits (inversion of above), cue -> make it invisible, craving -> make it ugly, response -> make it hard, reward -> make it unsatisfying
  • To break habits we need to make it more concious first, point and call system (is good and neat)
  • Making a plan about when and where to act (most common cue), less wishy washy
  • Didero Affect -> decide what to do next based on what you just did, spiral of affect. Habit stacking (pair new habit with current habit -> right after current habit)
  • Make queues visually obvious in your environment to get you to change your actions.
  • One space one use, room is a queue for certain kind of action
  • People with best self controll create environments where you don't need to use it.
  • (Vietnam heroin users stopped when they came home because environment changed)
  • Dopamine comes from the anticipation of a reward, not its fufillment
  • Temptation bundling -> tie something you want to do to something you need to do (can only watch TV while biking). Or (I can only surf FB after doing 10 burpies. I will do 10 burpies and then I will surf FB)
  • We imitate and conform to social groups around us (in particular gruops being the close, the many and the powerful)
  • Join culture where people are similar to you and everyone does the thing you want to do
  • People mostly want to be wrong with a group rather than right alone
  • Surface level craving, underlying desire
  • Word and mindset shift 'I have to', 'I get to'. Reframe habits to highlight their benefits. Exercise not I have to got for a run, but its time to build endurance and get fast
  • You have to actually do the thing, rather than just researching it or preparing to do the thing
  • Frequency is what's important not time
  • When starting a habit, make it easy (so easy that you can do it even when you don't want to). 50 pushups vs 5 pushups
  • Remove points of friction from your environment. Make an environment where doing the right thing is as easy as possible. (Have a exercise equipment in home with easy setup to reduce the effort of going to a gym). Also works in reverse, remove batteries from remote, delete social media apps.
  • Chunk down problems into easier tasks. Waking up early. Electronics off at 10 pm, in bed by 10 pm, wake up at 6 am
  • Commitment device, controlling future action by current action. Set automatic do not disturb time.
  • 1 time investment that pays again and again. Automate things ->
  • Set automatic investing.
  • Make it satisfying, flavor on gum vs non flavored. Satisfying foamy soap vs not.
  • Immediate satisfaction, not delayed.
  • Satisfaction through looking at visual progress. Marbles from one jar into another
  • Never miss habit twice in a row. Missing once is okay.
  • Make sure you're measuring the right thing and not over optimizing for what you measure
  • Inversion of 4th law. Make bad things unsatisfying. (Should be immediate) black and white for tiktoks
  • Lean into your innate skills and physical advantages and background so far and personality, when choosing habits.
  • Exploritory phase, with occasional re exploratory. Use the 80% on normal and 20% on exploratory.
  • Combine skills that you are good but not great at to do the best. Delbert comic artist was good at drawing and good at being funny but great at neither.
  • Task should be just on the edge if current abilities.
  • You have to do it even when its boring sometimes.
  • System for reflection and review of habits
  • Building habits should be gradual -> think smallest and easiest version or peice to start and then bigger and bigger to where you want it to be
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